🚦 Red Flags & Green Flags to Look for in a Waxer
What You Need to Know Before You Let Anyone Near Your Bikini Line
Let’s be real: getting waxed — especially a Brazilian — is personal. You're trusting someone with your skin, your comfort, and your body. So it’s important to know how to spot a waxer who’s got your back (and your front) versus someone who might be cutting corners.
Whether you're a waxing newbie or a seasoned smooth-skin queen, here are the red flags and green flags to look for when choosing a waxer.
✅ GREEN FLAGS: Signs You’ve Found a Good Waxer
1. They Prioritize Cleanliness
A good waxer treats hygiene like gospel. That means:
Wearing gloves at all times
Using a clean stick for every single dip (no double-dipping ever!)
Disinfecting tools and surfaces between clients
đź’ˇ Pro Tip: You should never see reused sticks or crusty wax pots.
2. They Do a Proper Consultation
Before they even think about touching you, a great waxer will:
Ask about your skin type, sensitivities, and medications
Explain what to expect during and after the wax
Make you feel heard, not rushed
It’s not “just hair removal” — your skin is involved, and a real pro knows that.
3. They Make You Feel Comfortable
Getting waxed can feel awkward, but a good waxer will:
Talk you through each step
Use humor or calm energy to ease nerves
Respect your boundaries and check in during the service
Especially for first-timers, being made to feel safe is everything.
4. They Educate You
A top-tier waxer won’t just rip and dip — they’ll guide you with:
Pre-wax tips (like exfoliating)
Aftercare advice (ingrown prevention, calming products)
Real talk about realistic results
They want your skin to thrive, not just survive.
5. They Use High-Quality Products
Whether it's hard wax or soft wax, your esthetician should be using clean, reputable, skin-safe products. Cheap wax = more pain, more breakouts, and more problems.
đźš© RED FLAGS: When to Run (or Cancel the Appointment)
1. They Double Dip
This is the biggest red flag. If they dip the same stick back into the wax pot — even once — that’s a breeding ground for bacteria. It’s gross and unsafe.
2. The Room Looks Dirty or Cluttered
Your wax room should feel clean, fresh, and organized — not dusty, sticky, or chaotic. Messy setup = messy standards.
3. They Rush Through the Service
A Brazilian wax should take 15–30 minutes depending on technique. If someone’s done in 7 minutes, chances are they missed spots, skipped steps, or didn’t care about your comfort.
4. They Don’t Ask Questions or Offer Instructions
No consultation? No aftercare info? 🚩. If your waxer treats your appointment like a factory line, you’re not getting personalized care.
5. They Shame or Judge You
Whether it's your body type, gender identity, grooming habits, or how long it’s been since your last wax — there’s no room for judgment in a wax room. You should always feel respected and welcome.
Final Thoughts: Trust Your Gut (and Your Skin)
A good waxer is more than just someone who removes hair — they're your skin-care ally, your cheerleader, and your guardian of good hygiene.
If you're in the Chicagoland area and want a waxer who is:
Plus-size friendly
LGBTQ+ affirming
First-timer kind
And obsessed with smooth, glowing skin —
come visit me at Glow Girl Esthetics. I’ll bring the professionalism, the clean wax, and the quirky humor — you just bring yourself.
đź’¬ Thinking about getting your first Brazilian?
Or not sure if your current waxer is a red flag in disguise?
Book a consultation or reach out with questions — I’m here to help!
